10 years of Humsafar: Never Have A Relationship Like Ashar and Khirad

Indeed it was good 10 years ago when mega-hit drama Humsafar aired on HUM TV, starring Mahira Khan and Fawad Khan in the lead roles and made all across the Urdu drama fans world.
Directed by Sarmad Sultan Khoosat, the drama made headlines worldwide. Drama later made its way to channels in the UK, India, and MBC Bollywood in the UAE and Saudi Arabia.
Humsafar is currently streaming on Netflix. It is one of the first Pakistani dramas which is available on an International mega online platform.


Well celebrating the 10 years of success, the Khirad of Humsafar took to social media to share her gratitude.
“#10yearsofhumsafar I have nothing but gratitude and love for all of you… and only myself to offer,” wrote Mahira Khan in a tweet.

Mahira Khan As Khirad

Mahira Khan Celebrates 10 Years Of Humsafar
Humsafar | HUMTV

Mahira Khan is a phenomenal and versatile Pakistani actress. She is best known for portraying the role of Khirad Ashar Hussain in Momina Duraid’s Humsafar. For which she received numerous awards, including the Lux Style Award for Best Television Actress. She started her career as a VJ in 2006. She made her screen debut in drama serial Neeyat and Shoaib Mansoor’s film Bol opposite Atif Aslam in 2011. Her role in Humsafar earned her a Lux Style Award for Satellite Best TV Actress and Hum Award for Best Onscreen Couple.

Fawad Khan as Ashar

Mahira Khan Celebrates 10 Years Of Humsafar
Humsafar | HUMTV

Fans of Humsafar swear by the show because of Ashar and Khirad’s romance and the sexual tension constantly surrounding their relationship. The serial scores brownie points when it comes to Khirad, a character who’s strong, progressive, and has tremendous self-respect. However, it can’t be denied that her relationship with her husband was extremely toxic. Ashar’s faith in his wife and marriage was shaken by a simple turn of events. He’s an educated and progressive man and yet, he isn’t free from the clutches of male ego and patriarchy. When he realizes his mistake, he blames his mother, even though he’s as much to blame. Khirad, too, accepts his lame apology instead of taking him to the task. 

The Plot

Khirad is an educated and self-respecting woman who takes care of her ill mother by managing the household work and helping her mother give tuition. Ashar is a rich businessman who has foreign degrees and a fancy lifestyle. The two are first cousins, as Ashar’s father and Khirad’s mother are siblings. When the latter passes away, Ashar’s father gets him married to Khirad in order to bring her into his family. Ashar’s mother doesn’t give this marriage her blessing.
When the couple gets married, they don’t get along at all as Khirad thinks she has been robbed of her dignity and Ashar feels she’s too stoic and silent. Eventually, through conversations and dates, they get along well and fall in love with each other.

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Tragedy strikes their lives when Ashar’s father passes away and his mother starts plotting against Khirad and plans to make Ashar believe that his wife is having an affair with another man.

Progressive Yet Trapped By Patriarchy

Ashar berates Khirad and misbehaves with her without telling her the reason for his changed behavior. He starts off by showing his displeasure through gestures and facial expressions but eventually turns passive-aggressive. Once a loving and caring husband, he suddenly turns into a bitter man, and this is where all the toxicity starts. When Khirad tells him that she loves him and that there is no other man in her life besides him, he mellows down.

But things go for a toss when Ashar’s mother’s horrible plan works and Khirad falls into the trap. Ashar, without listening to Khirad’s explanation, believes that she’s having an affair with her classmate. When his mother throws his wife out of the house and lies to Ashar about her eloping, he believes her. This is the same man who was, not so many days ago, deeply in love with his wife. When a pregnant Khirad calls him to share the news and explain the situation, he refuses to listen to her.

Humsafar Follows Happy Ending

Years pass by and the couple meets again when Khirad approaches Ashar and tells him that their daughter, Hareem, needs to undergo surgery. Although a bit shocked initially, Ashar takes them in after seeing medical records and proof that Hareem is indeed his daughter. But, throughout this time he makes sure that he gives an earful to Khirad whenever he gets the chance. He, never once, offers to listen to her side of the story. In fact, when he realizes that their daughter needs both parents, he asks Khirad to apologize so that he can take her back again.

Khirad refuses and tells him that she won’t apologize and that she has no interest in taking him back. Few days later, when Ashar learns about Khirad’s innocence, he brings her back. Ashar tearfully begs her to accept him, if only for their daughter’s sake. The serial has only two episodes where Ashar can be seen feeling remorseful for his actions, after which the couple is shown united.

Relationship Advice for Humsafar Fans

If you have loved and watched this show like a hawk, you shouldn’t think that such relationship problems are normal, because they aren’t. Indeed, if your partner gets aggressive because he’s insecure about the relationship, then they are a toxic person. If their trust is as weak as the current government’s ideologies, you need to let go of them because you deserve better. Please don’t let Ashar and Khirad tell you otherwise.

Mashfak Qureshi is an entertainment journalist, who brings facts and knowledge in the simplest form and believes in questioning.

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